Beach Time - Week of July 20th

 "At the beach, time you enjoyed wasting is not wasted." ~T.S. Eliot

Cam's former teacher, Miss Kathy, once commented that "Some people collect things.  Cam collects people."  This statement has become more true with each passing year. The older Cam gets, the more people he gathers into his life through genuine friendships, meaningful connections, and a sincere interest in others. His ability to make others feel valued and welcomed has created a growing community of people who are drawn to his kindness, authenticity, and enthusiasm for life. 

We had a surprise visit from Auntie Karen on Wednesday as she was traveling back to her Illinois home.  Karen worked with Jane for many years, but truly wanted to see Cam more than his parents. 😉

Cam attended his CrossFit class on Thursday evening, happy to see his coaches and pass out thank you cards for attending the grad party.

On Saturday, Jane picked up Cameron's grandma and we all headed to the cottage.  We love spending time with Oma, especially on the big lake.

Our best beach day was Sunday.  Cousin Steff and her son, James, arrived in the afternoon to spend some time by the shoreline with us and extended family.

We've come to realize that even if it's not the sunniest day on Lake Michigan, any day to see the water, be in the sand, and be with each other makes for a great day!

For Cam, his mom and her niece Steff, the cottage is all they've known in the summertime for their entire lives. 

Auntie Karen sent this screenshot of Cam 12 years ago as a reminder!

Camology Quotes:

Cam, along with parents, have been dealing with the Michigan Dept of Health and Human Services (MDHHS) for Cam's benefits as an adult with CP. However, he has become increasingly frustrated when they don't respond and had the following commentary:

"They should extend the same common courtesy to us and send a notification like we send thank you's!"

Apple Overload! - Week of July 13th

“If you wish to make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent the universe.” ~Carl Sagan

When a tradition is passed from generation to generation, it seems timeless.  It's something that has always been done by a member of your family.  Making homemade applesauce and apple pies is that tradition for us.  The apples used are special and specific: early transparent.  As we've come to realize, not too many farmers harvest these apples.  They are a bit finicky from a grower's perspective but, in our humble opinion, they make the best pies and sauce we've ever tasted.  

Miss Amanda connected us with a friend of hers who sells the green early transparents.  

This year, we picked up the largest order yet- 3 bushels!  Believe it or not, this was close to 500 apples! Six crates that were filled to the brim lived in our laundry room all week.  Slowly but surely, our containers of applesauce were deposited into the garage freezer and five apple pies were frozen and two were made and given away. By the end of the week, only a portion of two crates remained.

Between rounds of applesauce and pies, Cam began the arduous task of thanking everyone for coming to the graduation party/open house.  

He designed his cards for printing and indicated what he wanted to say to thank each person who attended.  

The cards and gifts he received nearly covered the entire dining room table!  It seemed like every day we talked about a memory from the party reminding us how special it was.  

The wildlife have been back in full force in our backyard.  The young fawns appear almost daily and are very curious.  Baby turkeys are sporadically in abundance too.

Even though they tend to munch on our flowers, it does make us smile to see the animals on a regular basis that aren't typically found in the city.

Camology Quotes:

Cam communicates with A.I. daily using his Amazon Alexa devices.  Each morning, he'll typically request the daily forecast and then verify with the local news and other sources. One day in particular, he performed a triple check of the weather data and declared:

"Alexa is spot on!"

Best Buds Party! - Week of July 6th

"I am thankful for the mess to clean after a party because it means I have been surrounded by friends.” ~Nancie J. Carmody

An impending event can bring up a host of emotions.  Some may feel excited, anxious and overwhelmed.  Cameron knew his official graduation party "open house" was forthcoming but it did seem to creep up rather quickly.  

It turns out that Open House Graduation parties are rather unique to the Midwest part of the country.  The term "open house" is widely referred to as visiting a home that's for sale.  Many people in Michigan attend multiple open house/grad parties in a single day with the knowledge that you can arrive when it suits you and leave as soon as you're ready to head out.  

Prior to the Best Buds Celebration, though, there were a few more surprises in store...Wednesday evening, our dear friends, the Flegel's requested to stop by with Cam's graduation party present.  We were a bit puzzled and couldn't imagine what they were dropping off.  Craig and Cara have an expansive garden at their place and Chris and his son often head over to load up on vegetables.  We were all collectively surprised when they appeared with two huge potted tomato plants!  Each had its own personal metal customized "tag": Cam's Cherry Bomb Corner and Cam Lord of the Vine.  The cherry bomb and yellow tomatoes respectively are his absolute favorites!

Friday morning, Ms. Barbara, Cam & Brody's very first grade school teacher stopped by to drop off cards for her former students.  She told us she had a wedding to attend on Saturday so she wanted to ensure they both knew how much they meant to her.  Barbara hasn't missed a baseball season for the best buds since they began playing!

Friday also marked a big birthday for Cam's dad...Chris was officially 50!  He opened some funny shirts from Cam and gifts from Jane.  (Throwback photo included in the collage on Chris's bday in 2013 of father and son).  In the early evening, Cam's mom had a surprise for both her son and husband.  Jane had secretly planned for Ms. Ann to hang out with Cam while she took Chris out for a dinner at MDRD, located on the top (27th floor) of the Amway Grand downtown. Then, Cam's parents were very surprised when a close friend (Jane's colleague) treated them both to their dinner all the way from New Jersey!

Saturday was the day of the highly anticipated Best Buds Graduation Party!  The open house time was scheduled from 3-6pm but we had some work to do before that.  Brody and Cam were both ready to pitch in. Chris and Cam picked up the 200 bundtini cakes for dessert.  Decorations were assembled and arranged, the tent and tables were put in place and the delicious food arrived from the Garage Bar.

We've often said that Cam and Brody are a great pairing.  Brody is carefree and sometimes "bends the rules" while Cam is typically routine-driven and concerned about going "outside of the boundaries" as it relates to anything with rules.  The two best buddies provide balance.  

Ever since kindergarten, they've had each other's backs, celebrating the victories and sharing in life's sorrows, exemplifying what it is to be a true friend in the purest sense.  And thankfully, their families gel together quite nicely too.  Sharing this event with the Cole family felt like it was meant to be.  The warm sunshine met a slight breeze and the food was kept inside the air conditioned cafe.  

Overwhelmed and thankful were the chosen emotions of the day.  Each family member, godmother, close friend, teacher, helper and physical therapist showed up!  Cameron couldn't believe all of the people who came and how many of those people he and Brody had in common!  We may not have captured pictures of every single guest, but the endless conversations the remainder of the day (and many to come) reminded us of the presence of each person gathered in celebration.

On Sunday, although a bit weary, we made our way to another grad party for Caden, Madison's brother.  The dessert and coffee display there were a special treat for Cam and Brody since they missed out on the bundtinis at their own event.  It was nice to relax and chat with the families.

When we returned home, our dear friend Molly stopped in to drop off Cam's graduation gift.  The two shared some serious laughs, as they always do.

Sunday evening, as the sun was setting and we were talking about the weekend celebrations, one thing was abundantly clear...we are truly blessed.

Camology Quotes:

As were discussing the upcoming party for the best buds, we weren't certain if Cam was serious or joking when he made the following comment:

"So, do I need to stay for the entire whole time at my graduation party?!"

Our Country's Celebration - Week of June 29th

"Laughter is the fireworks of the soul." ~Josh Billings

Cam has always been a huge fan of celebrations, but fireworks have never been his personal favorite. 

Our week was filled with multiple opportunities to gather with family and friends.

Late afternoon on Wednesday, we made our way to Holland to visit our aunt and uncle and their kids and grandkids (our cousins) at Maple Beach.  We typically see this entire crew only once a year.  Two families live in different parts of the U.S. and two other families live in different actual countries all together.  It was a very warm afternoon with high humidity.  Somehow, our cousins made everything comfortable with a cool mister, beach umbrellas, tasty drinks and appetizers.  During our relaxing time, Cameron asked his uncle for the origin story of the Jellema cottage.  It was a lively conversation with many questions peppered in. 

The traditional shrimp boil mastered by Dave is always the highlight.  Cameron loves the sausage, corn and potatoes.  He happily gives up the shrimp to his parents.  The cornbread and applesauce were good accompaniments to our feast.  The dessert of mini bundt cakes, known as bundtinis hit the spot.  That evening the U.S. was a contender in the World Cup so a large screen was set up outside for viewing.  We played one of Cam's favorite games "Guess In 10 Animals Edition" which brought on a lively discussion about hair versus fur (which still remains in question!).

Cam's new buddy, Diandre, showed up with a Culver's lunch on Thursday.  The guys hung out together for a couple of hours discussing different things and playing some games.

Later that afternoon, we were on our way to Lake Michigan!  Jane and Cameron picked up Oma on their way.  Chris drove up earlier to change out the kitchen faucet, which is much easier when no one is around.  We arrived to full sunshine and couldn't wait to have dinner on the deck.

Friday was a nice day and we enjoyed time with cousins and shared a tasty meal together.  A fun nickname we learned about was a new cousin name for Cam's grandma.  Instead of Aunt Mary Ellen, they call her "Aunt Melon" which we all instantly loved.

Jane always tells Cam that every sunset is different.  When you see a picture, they definitely appear similar but to see the sun making its descent towards the lake and morph and change in person seems almost poetic.

Saturday was the 4th of July!  Oma had a shirt for the occasion that read "Party like it's 1776" to honor our country's 250th birthday.  We had a relaxing day.  The weather wasn't as cooperative until dinnertime so we were still able to have our meal outside on the deck.  We could hear the fireworks, but couldn't see them until we went up our roadway.  Even so, they definitely subsided much earlier than the typical city fireworks that we hear in Grand Rapids.

On the final day of our extended weekend, the beach was our destination later on Sunday.  We celebrated a cousin birthday and actually went into the water to cool off.  

Cam's beach chair has to be lifted up one level of stairs so he can be transferred back into his power wheelchair.  

We were all thankful to have some Lake Michigan water time before heading back to the city.

Cam is hopeful that in his lifetime, a power wheelchair could transport him to the beach and right into the water, all under his expert guidance and driving.  Until that time, the family and friends that surround us are always willing to assist in any way they can.  For this priceless gift, Cameron and his parents are forever grateful.

Camology Quotes:

In a recent conversation, Cam learned about the National Parks Lifetime Access Pass that he can apply for since he has a disability.  Following his research, Cameron declared:

"For once, my disability is actually a positive thing!"